Hanging out at home with B tonight and got an answer (via text) from Narc...
Here's what he said. It's pretty plain and simple--
Take whatever time you need to figure it out. (10:11 pm)
I REALLY DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT HE WANTS OR WHAT HE'S LOOKING FOR!!!
Needless to say, I haven't responded.
13 comments:
Really? It seems pretty obvious to me. He wants to have sex with you, maybe hang out afterwards if he's not busy.
He's never going to be your friend (let alone boyfriend) because that takes an emotional investment on his part. But sex and hanging out is easy.
Hurray for not replying!
Have you deleted it to remove all temptation?
Yes, Dan--but then why in the last text before that did he say "(just as friends! no more sex for us)"??? He made it sound like I'M the one who wants sex, not him... I guess for me, I just don't know what the basis for a friendship would be... Or if I could get rid of all my other feelings. I haven't deleted it, but I'm too confused to act in any direction right now. I guess I want to wait for time to give me some clarity.
Hyde-
I agree with Dan. Completely. He says no more sex, but that's bullshit, he doesn't mean that. One Hundred percent with what Dan says. And sorry again for scaring you yesterday.
Dan said this:
Really? It seems pretty obvious to me. He wants to have sex with you, maybe hang out afterwards if he's not busy.
He's never going to be your friend (let alone boyfriend) because that takes an emotional investment on his part. But sex and hanging out is easy.
This is exactly what Palmer wanted from me, and I think what Dan says about friendship needing an emotional investment that Narc can't give also applies to Palmer.
So I wish I had really believed this about him when he and I tried to be "friends".
All that said... don't reply, let it lie for a while.
I agree with NDN, he always seems to have good advice. I wish I had such a good friend live right next door to me. With all of the hijinxes you two get into it sounds like a Seinfeld episode.
Dan is just so good at the advice, that I find myself almost redundant.
You must listen to him.
Really, Nick? I think Dan is right in this case, but usually NDN is totally off target! I'm sorry, but I just never agree with anything that guy says or does!
And Hyde--you know it'll just be more of the same! Don't do it...
Sue,
If that is your "real name" that is. This isn't supposed to be a board dedicated to bashing other commentors on Hyde's blog. We're all here because we are interested in the comings and goings of our friend and her adventures and misadventures in the Big Apple. If you have a problem, it would be my pleasure to meet up with you for coffee some time and we could discuss.
Nick
Coffee? I don't even know where you live! I don't live in NY. Besides, I don't have a problem with you anyway. It was NDN. Not worth my time.
Um, this is weird... Please no bickering in my comment section... Thanks for your support, but please just keep the comments in reference to the post--I would appreciate no more commentary on my friends (good, bad or otherwise) or on other commenters. Otherwise, I'll have take them down.
Another post is coming soon... Just a busy day today though.
:)
Guys, please don't fight over me. I have no idea who either of you are. Nick-I am flattered. Sue-You have every right to your (albeit wrong) opinion. This should be about Hyde. Nick, you don't need to mention me anymore, it's fine, that way Sue won't have a problem. Gosh, all this drama over a NextDoorNeighbor.
Hyde, I emailed Palmer!!! But I feel a lot better, and have a strong feeling he won't reply.
::sigh::
Now what ever will I agonize over?
Hope you are well.
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